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The Scale: What It Really Measures (And What It Doesn't!)

May 09, 2025•3 min read
The Truth About the Scale

Let's have a real talk about that emotional terrorist lurking in your bathroom - yes, I'm talking about your scale.

You know the routine. You step on it first thing in the morning (after peeing, of course, because those ounces count! šŸ™„), and suddenly that little number decides your entire mood, worth, and whether you're "allowed" to feel good about yourself today.

What We Think The Scale Measures

Let's be honest - we've all played this game. We step on that metal rectangle of doom thinking it's measuring:

  • If we've been "good" or "bad" this week

  • Whether we deserve to feel confident

  • If we can wear our favorite jeans

  • Our entire worth as a human being

  • Whether we need to punish ourselves at the gym

  • If we're "allowed" to eat that birthday cake

  • Our success in life (ridiculous, but true!)

But here's the plot twist...

What The Scale ACTUALLY Measures

That number? It's literally just measuring gravity's relationship with your body at this exact moment. Here's what's REALLY affecting that number:

  1. Your Hydration Status: Did you know your body weight can fluctuate 2-4 pounds in a single day just from water? That's right - that "gain" might just mean you're well-hydrated. Go you!

  2. Your Hormonal Party: Ladies, our hormones are doing the cha-cha throughout the month. That number can swing up to 5 pounds depending on where you are in your cycle. It's not you - it's your hormones doing their job!

  3. Your Last Meal: Still digesting last night's dinner? That's going to show up on the scale. Not because you did anything wrong, but because - surprise! - food has weight before your body processes it.

  4. Your Stress Levels: Hello, cortisol! When we're stressed, our bodies hold onto water like we're preparing for a drought. It's not fat - it's your body being a protective mama bear.

  5. Your Sleep Quality: Bad night's sleep? Your body might be holding onto extra water weight. It's not permanent - it's just your body saying "Hey, maybe more sleep would be nice?"

The Truth Bomb šŸ’£

Here's what your scale will NEVER measure:

  • Your kindness

  • Your intelligence

  • Your impact on others

  • Your strength (emotional or physical)

  • Your worth as a human being

  • Your potential

  • Your beauty

  • Your right to take up space in this world

A Better Way Forward

Instead of letting that number dictate your day, try these instead:

  • Notice how your clothes feel

  • Track your energy levels

  • Measure your quality of sleep

  • Monitor your stress levels

  • Pay attention to your hunger signals

  • Celebrate what your body can DO

Remember: Your body is busy keeping you alive, processing nutrients, fighting off germs, healing wounds, maintaining your temperature, and about a million other things that have nothing to do with that number on the scale.

The Next Time You Step on the Scale...

Take a deep breath and remember - you're not getting a grade on your worth as a person. You're simply getting data about how much your body mass is being pulled by gravity at this exact moment. That's it.

And honestly? You're too fabulous to let a hunk of metal and plastic determine your self-worth. šŸ’ā€ā™€ļøāœØ

Your Turn: What would change in your life if you stopped letting the scale determine your worth? Drop a comment below - I'd love to hear your thoughts!

Ready to break free from scale obsession and develop a healthier relationship with your body? Let's talk! Book your FREE Weight Loss Jumpstart Call and discover how to make peace with your body while reaching your goals.

Kim Siberski is a certified life coach specializing in helping women over 40 find freedom from dieting. After losing 30 pounds at 62 and keeping it off for over 4 years, she's passionate about showing other women that it's never too late to transform their relationship with food. When she's not coaching, you'll find her hanging out with my husband and 4 dogs, walking, reading or working on one of my hobbies.

Kim Siberski

Kim Siberski is a certified life coach specializing in helping women over 40 find freedom from dieting. After losing 30 pounds at 62 and keeping it off for over 4 years, she's passionate about showing other women that it's never too late to transform their relationship with food. When she's not coaching, you'll find her hanging out with my husband and 4 dogs, walking, reading or working on one of my hobbies.

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